Living in Fear: Adil Khan Durrani’s Candid Video Sparks Debate on Men’s Struggles After Marriage

Adil Khan Durrani Says He Will Do The Same With Somi Khan What He Dad  Before Rakhi Sawant - YouTube

For 30 years, Adil Khan Durrani says he lived in his own room, with his own belongings, enjoying a sense of independence—until marriage changed everything. In a recent viral video, Adil expresses how, even when using his own washroom, the sound of a knock on the door fills him with anxiety. “Why should I be afraid? The fear is not mine, but why am I living with it?” he asks.

A heartfelt monologue, Adil’s video dives deep into the emotional realities men often face after marriage. He talks about being judged for the way he keeps his clothes, the constant scrutiny, and a growing sense of fear that seeps into everyday life. “Women often talk about how marriage changes them,” he says, “but for men, the biggest change is living in fear—fear of judgment, fear of being belittled.”

Adil’s message doesn’t stop at generalities. He openly shares how, in his previous relationship with Rakhi Sawant, his self-worth was constantly under attack. He claims that the same pattern of humiliation carried over to his marriage with Somi Khan, saying he refuses to go on living suffocated and demeaned by a partner.

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The video quickly triggered a wave of reactions on social media. While many viewers empathized with Adil and praised his courage for speaking out, others accused him of making excuses and pointed to his history of frequent relationship changes, likening it to “changing wives as often as cars.”

The debate around Adil’s statements raises important questions—do men feel pressure to suppress their emotions within marriage? How can couples build stronger, more respectful relationships without fear or humiliation?

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