Aary PRIORITISING his girlfriend Yogita over parents Archana & Parmeet? Yogita labelled gold digger?

In today’s digital age, where social media blurs the lines between celebrities and their fans, even the most personal moments of public figures can become hot topics of national debate. One such case that has recently taken center stage involves Aryaman Sethi, the elder son of actress and television personality Archana Puran Singh and actor Parmeet Sethi. Aryaman, who is affectionately called “Ary” by fans and family, has found himself and his fiancée Yogita Bihani in the eye of a growing storm online.

Aryaman launched his personal YouTube channel titled “R Vlogs” some time ago. Initially, he gained popularity through his family’s collective YouTube channel, “Aapka Parivaar,” where the Sethi family – Archana, Parmeet, Aryaman, and his younger brother Ayushmaan – documented their lives through food and daily vlogs. These candid, warm videos were filled with familial bonding and light-hearted fun, drawing in a loyal audience that resonated deeply with the family’s simplicity and love.

As Aryaman branched out on his own, his content began focusing more on his individual experiences and lifestyle. It was through this very platform that he introduced the world to his girlfriend, now fiancée, Yogita Bihani. Yogita is not new to the entertainment industry herself. She has appeared in TV serials, advertisements, and even shared the screen with actors like Karan Kundrra. Her screen presence and beauty have not gone unnoticed. From the moment she appeared in Ary’s vlogs, she started receiving immense love from viewers who were eager to learn more about her.

However, as often happens with public figures, that admiration soon turned into criticism – and in some cases, even vitriol. Recent vlogs that touched on Ary and Yogita’s personal life choices sparked a wave of online backlash. Particularly, their decision to move into a renovated bungalow – a property that currently belongs to Ary’s parents – attracted attention and scrutiny. According to Ary’s videos, the bungalow in question is one part of the double bungalow that Archana and Parmeet own and live in. Ary and Yogita are reportedly planning to shift into the other part of the property after a substantial renovation.

What may have been a simple move for any family quickly snowballed into controversy when fans started raising concerns over the scale of the renovation. Some netizens commented that the remodeling wasn’t just cosmetic—like repainting walls or rearranging furniture—but involved major structural changes. Walls were being broken, layouts restructured, and luxurious additions like walk-in wardrobes and vanity areas were being planned. For many fans who had developed an emotional connection with the family’s original home through years of watching vlogs, this felt jarring.

The discontent didn’t stop at the house renovation. It extended into the relationship between Ary and Yogita as well. In a recent vlog, during a discussion with his father Parmeet regarding renovation ideas, Ary jokingly cut him off and insisted that Yogita should speak first. Though it was likely intended as a light-hearted comment, many viewers felt it came across as dismissive towards his father. In the Indian cultural context, where respect for elders is deeply rooted, the comment rubbed some the wrong way. Several viewers posted that Ary owed his father an apology, feeling that he had disrespected him on camera.

Parmeet Sethi, for his part, remained composed and gracious throughout, showing no visible signs of offense. In fact, both Archana and Parmeet displayed remarkable restraint and supportiveness, continuing to show love and encouragement to the young couple. As seasoned public figures, they seemed to understand the weight of public perception and chose to take the high road, avoiding any confrontation or overt reaction.

But unfortunately, the criticism didn’t just stop with Ary. Yogita became the unexpected target of severe trolling. Several users accused her of being “materialistic” or even labeled her a “gold digger.” These labels stemmed from assumptions that she was benefiting from Ary’s family wealth and using him for material gain—especially after Ary gifted her some expensive Apple gadgets. Comments began pouring in, suggesting she was opportunistic, calculating, and greedy, all without any concrete evidence.

This type of criticism, especially against women in the public eye, reveals a concerning pattern of misogyny that continues to persist on social platforms. Yogita, despite having a career of her own in acting and advertising, was reduced in the eyes of many to just another woman “chasing money.” It was disheartening to see how quickly the narrative shifted from admiration to condemnation, all because of perceived materialism and assumptions about her intentions in the relationship.

It’s important to highlight here that Yogita has been working independently in the entertainment industry long before her association with Ary. She has built a name and a portfolio on her own merit. The assumption that her only value lies in her association with a famous family reflects the deeply ingrained sexism that often defines how women are treated in the public eye.

Some of the criticism even attacked her body language or expressions in vlogs, claiming that she didn’t seem excited enough while looking at the renovated house or that she appeared “too surprised.” These observations, too, seem unfair and speculative. Emotional reactions vary from person to person, especially when someone is overwhelmed. Being thrust into the spotlight, living up to people’s expectations, and adjusting to life with a famous partner is not easy. Perhaps Yogita was simply trying to process everything in the moment. It’s unfair to label her based on such superficial cues.

Then came the debate about the speed of their relationship. From dating to engagement and now planning to move in together, everything seemed to be unfolding rapidly, at least from the viewer’s perspective. Some fans questioned whether the couple was rushing things, suggesting that they should take more time before making such significant commitments like moving in or renovating a home together. While these concerns may come from a place of genuine care, they also reflect a tendency among audiences to project their own values onto others’ lives. Relationships don’t follow a single template, and what works for one couple might not work for another.

Despite the backlash, there were still many viewers who stood by Ary and Yogita. They praised Archana and Parmeet for being supportive parents, and some even defended Yogita, saying that calling her a gold digger was unfair, unkind, and based on nothing more than assumptions. Many acknowledged the pressures the couple must be facing and encouraged others to give them space and time to figure things out.

This entire episode is a reminder of the double-edged sword of fame. When influencers invite the public into their lives through vlogs and social media, they unknowingly hand over a piece of control to their audience. Fans begin to feel a sense of ownership over the influencer’s life choices. While this connection can be heartwarming, it can also lead to entitlement, judgment, and sometimes even hostility.

In Ary and Yogita’s case, they are clearly navigating uncharted territory. Ary, despite coming from a well-known family, is still figuring out his path as a content creator and partner. Yogita, equally ambitious, is juggling her own career with the added pressure of public expectations. As young adults in the public eye, they’re bound to make choices some agree with and others don’t. But that doesn’t warrant the harsh judgments or cruel labels that have been thrown their way.

At the heart of this controversy lies a broader issue: how quickly the internet turns love into criticism and admiration into suspicion. As consumers of content, perhaps it’s time to remind ourselves that real people exist behind the screens—flawed, evolving, and deserving of empathy.

While Ary and Yogita may continue to document their journey, let’s hope that viewers do so with a little more understanding and a little less judgment. They deserve the freedom to grow, to learn, and to love—without the constant burden of online validation or criticism.

As this story continues to unfold, one can only hope that it serves as a wake-up call about the toxicity of quick assumptions and the damage that baseless trolling can cause. In the end, whether or not Ary and Yogita’s relationship stands the test of time is theirs to discover—not ours to decide.

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